My thoughts and dreams.

Wednesday, October 08, 2008




I haven't posted in a million years but a lot has happen, but let's just start with the latest news.....1. Cyndi graduated from SDSU, she is a math geek for life hahahha, 2. then she went on and got married to a favorite guy named Carlos aka Charley !! 3. Franky had a Charger B-day party !!! he had soo much fun, and tomorrow I gets to go to ze NKOTB concert, yay for me!!!! also Gen went to a Vanessa Hudgens concert.............. toodlesssssss more info on mly myspace..........

Wednesday, April 09, 2008

I WILL UPDATE WHEN I DOWNLOAD SOME PICS TO TELL STORIES.

Sunday, January 06, 2008

Go Chargers


Hope we go far in the playoffs...





Genesis,Franky & Johnny all Chargered-out.

Monday, August 27, 2007


Hace 5 años nacio mi flaquito, with each day comes a new adventure....I love U Franky


My borther Jr. (Efren for those of you who don't know) put this team together last year and this year they won the championship, I'm so proud of you mijo, I miss you, hope to see you soon, Dios te bendiga, i love you.

Monday, July 23, 2007

Congratz Oscarin



El primer sobrino (y el mayor) de la familia de graduarse de la prepa y va directo a la UABC aka "weva c"... The whole family is oh so proud of you mijo, don't let anything stop you from making all your dreams come true, shoot for the stars & if you need help on the way, call-email-im-text what ever it takes just ask for it.
You have made us very proud,que Dios te bendiga y te guie siempre, Y LOVE TU YU NEPUE. The Pecoraros

Wednesday, June 27, 2007


I had never been to Vegas, we had a great time, and yes, there is a lot kids can do in syn-city. I'm to tired to post right now, so here's a pic.

Saturday, June 16, 2007

Don Efren Frayre III, better known as: mi Pa


I will be very busy tomorrow (father's day) y no quiero que pase el dia sin decirte.
TE EXTRAñO UN CHINGO PA,Y TE QUIERO MUCHO MAS
you are missed every single day.
Que Dios te Bendiga donde quiera que estes.

Why go into details, this sums it all:
I had a pretty bad night last night.

Monday, April 23, 2007

B-Day wishes


Happy b-day babe we love you. Gen, Franky & Me....

Saturday, March 31, 2007

Con amor,nostalgia y mucho sentido del humor..

The Frayre Family
From top to bottom: Dad, Mom, Alma, Nor, Lola, Loida, Me, Jr; Cyndi, Josi & Bivi.
A family picture en honor al 5to. aniversario de Don Efren Frayre II (04-01-02) .
Te amamos y te extrañamos cada vez mas, la vida sin ti no es ni sera nunca igual, pero tu
sentido del humor y tu amor lo llevamos serca de nuestro corazon, Dios te Bendiga Pa, we miss you!!

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Estoi zaturada de imfornacion, la kabeza me va a estallar.
No le puedo meter una vocal mas a este cerebro que desde hace unos años
no le entraba ni el polvo, reading a book or two because you are obligated
does not make you cunning, it actually makes you want to pick up some
literature for fun, but where to start? the last book I read for fun
fue Daughter of fortune de Isabel Allende, y de eso ya llovio.
Bueno eso si quitamos los 8-9 que me e tragado para aprender a vivir "green"
(which is not an easy task, I should add).
I should stop now, I'm not even understanding my own thoughts.
But if some literary critic happens to fly through here, please drop
some names of a book or two, it will be much appreciated.

Friday, January 26, 2007

The hardest week of my life...

Let's recap:
I wake up monday, normal with a lot of energy y ganas de empezar la semana del cumple de mi gorda bien, como a las 8am llamo a Doña Concha (like always) y me dice muy nonchalant que su dr. le mando hacer una mamografia, 'cause habia algo "raro" en su seno, as you can imagine after that I wasn't able to function well, that's not something you want to hear from your mom's lips.
Ese mismo dia nos fuimos al juego de los Sac. Kings, and even though we had a great time, mi pensamiento estaba con mi ma (que si esto que si lo otro).
El martes fue el cumple de mi gorda y estubo bien (se lo celebramos el domingo antes) cupcakes y jugo a su salon y su p-daddy le regalo flores (which totally made her day).
El miercoles a la oficina, para prepararme para la proxima semana, nada fuera de lo normal, pero esperando el mamograma de mom.
El jueves es el dia, a las 10:30 tenia su cita, la llevo mi hermana mayor (Alma for those of you who don't know) y gracias a Dios, al parecer todo esta bien. Respiramos y agradecimos a nuestro Padre que ella estaba bien, so el jueves tuve un dia bueno.
El viernes cuando estaba hablando con una de mis hermanas (como siempre en el chisme) me llama mi marido como a las 8:45 y me dice -now babe I don't want you to freak out, I'm ok, but I just got in a car accident and the car is totaled, but I'm ok"
intercambiamos palabras, -are you sure you are ok? -yes I'm sure I'm ok, but babe the car in completely totaled, be ready to come pick me up, I don't feel like I need an ambulance so just be ready to come and get me, - ok.
Llego, y mi boca cae al suelo, el carro completamente destrozado, lo escucho decirle al highway patrol que tuvo que salirse del carro por la puerta de atras del pasajero porque el carro estaba estancado en el camion con el que habia chocado -I went head on onto the big rig, so the car was literally stuck under the truck, an f-150 helped get my car out of the big rig.
el de la grua me dijo con alarmo que el no sabia como es que mi marido estaba no solo conciente sino de pie -the car is completely totaled, look at it, I can't believe your husband is walking.
-I just need to get the samples out of the trunk, 'cause is a pain in the but reporting those.
escuche a mi marido decirle al highway patrol, so me lanse hacia la cajuela para que el no hiciera trabajo, cuando la habri mi mente no podia creer lo que mis ojos veian, todas las cajas quebradas completamente, -Dios Santo, y el, intacto.
Nos fuimos a emergencias, se quejaba de dolor muscular y el tobillo, llegamos, llenamos todos lo papeles, lo admitieron casi de inmediato, esperamos unas 2 horas, then I tell him -babe I'm gonna call Laura (a really good friend of ours) to take care of franky, and I will come back and stay with you, I mean we might be here the whole day, -ok, be careful I love you.
Laura vive a una milla del hospital, todavia no empezaba mi camino de regreso de dejar a franky, cuando me llama mi flaco, -babe where are you? -I'm already on my way, why?
-the dr. just release me, he says I'm fine, he doesen't even think I need x-rays.
-what about your ankle?
-he just put a gauze on it, is fine he says.
-oh, hell no, no no no, I don't think so, you are getting x-rays, wait there for me.
cuando llego al hospital me pongo neurotica, -what makes you so sure he's ok, what if there is something wrong with him internally and you can't see it? why can't he get x-rays and maybe even a cat scan
-oh, he (the dr.) won't order a cat scan, but I will have you talk to him so you can feel better.
-you would know how I feel and why I'm like this if you could see the car.
el dr.-ma'am I have been doing this for over 25 years, trust me if there was anything wrong with your husband there is no way we would released him without further testing, but he shows no sings of internal pain, I examined him well.
-He will act strong just so I won't be worried; le dije
-trust me I can see pain even when they try to hide it.
-all he needs to do now is rest and just keep an eye on him for the next couple of weeks.

Llegamos a la casa, ve poquita tele, se duerme un rato, se levanta a comer y dice que ya no le duele casi nada, -maybe is the Motrin, -no, I took Motrin at 10 am, is already 8pm.

Como si no hubiera pasado nada.

Esta semana tuvimos 2 pruebas muy grandes, y gracias a Dios todo esta bien, creia en los milagros, pero nunca habia presenciado tantos, tan seguido, y tan grandes...........God is Good

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

The Kings game was awsome!!
we beat the Nets by 1 in the last 10 seconds.
Foam fingers for 2.

Gen & Franky had a blast!!

K.Martin my favorite King (until he gets trated)

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Happy 9th b-day Genesis

When You Came Into My Life.......


My Life Started To Have Meaning.
I love You Babe.
She was born @ 8:22pm, me acompañaban mi familia y uno que otro amigo, she had to stay in the hospital for 3 days, but she came out perfectly fine.
She has done ballet,tap,jazz,cheerleader,gymnastics & soccer (which she hate). When she was in the "oven" I didn't show for 7 months, my mom always used to say "ella sabe que tiene que quedarse tranquila cuando trabajas, tan buena mi niña"a broken elbow at 2,traveled to Hawaii @ 7,toured the western US at 8, has been my partner desde el dia en que nacio. I don't know what I would do without her. This is for you..."mi cosa bella" Te amo

Thursday, January 18, 2007


Happy B-Day Bivi !!!!

love you bunches

Friday, January 05, 2007

Happy belated b'day Mija !!


I know your b'day didn't
go well, but you still have
the whole year to make it up.
Call me when you need me,
& I hope this lil. tribute makes
you fell a little better.
Love U bunches...
Gen,Franky,Me & Johnny.

pics from top to bottom:w/bubu,reddek deeteer,
w/mom, w/sarahi & ash
w/franky & bubu...
ps. I have no pic's of U w/your uniform
send me one....

New year's @ Nor's house (Rosarito,b.c.)
Johnny,Nor,Efren,Maria,
Gen,Sarahi,Danny,Oscarin,
Ash,Cyndi,Bubu...
Oscarin's "inner child"
Gen watching tv. Part of the gang right after midnight. most of them had already gone to sleep.



Y-L-O-V-E-T-U-Y-U Jermanas, hope you all have a prosperous 2007 full of Blessings from us to you !!!

pictures fm:kari,gen,ashley & cyndi

Thursday, December 21, 2006



M

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Christmas & a

Blessed 2007!

From my family to yours.

Gen & Franky.....much love.

Monday, December 18, 2006

lost my usb cables, I couldn't dload pics. so now I'm going crazy, enjoy

The day after Thanksgiving in Oceanside.
Gen & Franky, the day she got her braces.


Jesus first Others 2nd
You last.




pictures by:Karina

Girls just want to have fun!

This one's for Gen & her cousins...




The girls (Chillis,Ash,Gen & Nonas) had a blast @ the RBD concert in Bak. back in July
Pictures by:Cyndi (como siempre de colada jaja)





In Frisko:

Johnny & Josi, this is the second time they go to a Charger-Niner game & Johnny wins, sorry mijo, but you will get yours........soon.........hopefully!!!

The important thing here is that, they had a Blast!!!

pictures by:Cynthia (mi cuñada) & Josi.

We are going to a Kings game baby!!!

Friday, December 01, 2006

Da Christmas List

1 God (always)
2. Health (lots of it)
3 Family (all of it)
4. Peace (for everybody)
5. Love (to all)
6.
7. una Coach.... hahaha

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

Is freakin' freezing outside..!!!

Saturday, November 18, 2006

I'm a good sister...but a horrible mother
I'm a good friend...but an awful daughter
I'm an honest person...but I lie w/ frequency
I'm a good human being...but don't count on me for help
I'm very decent...but I have no morals
I'm very kind...but don't expect pity from me
I'm very loyal...but I don't keep anything to myself
I'm a good person...but I lack integrity....





And I quote miss Alanis "....life has a funny way of helping you out when you think every thing's going good and everything blows up in your face"

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

I knew being in this much pain was not normal,
now i have to go back to my dentist.

Saturday, November 11, 2006

Cyndi called yesterday & told my usband that I was gonna get mad @ her.
I was still sedated by my wisdom teeth extractions, no hable con ella.
she called a 2nd time, and I told her what was it that she wanted to talk to me about.
-promise me u r not gonna get mad @ me?
-I can't do that, I know how impulsive u r .
-I'm gonna tell you anyways, so.

-Yesterday I went to eat with Graciela, her boyfriend & some friends of him (Navy guys)
and the guy's an ahole to her, he was going off on her about all kinds of sh**, putting her down,cuzing her out, telling her how stupid she was, and she did NOTHING kari, NO-THING, nomas ahi la mensa, taking all his sh**, and his friends backing him up like the f*** idiots that they are, "yeah you tell her, you da man" F****n idiots, so after 40 minutes of me listening to this sh**, I got up and told her, I'm leaving, the guy turn to me and said (I guess he thought I was graciela..big,big error)
- "who the f*** r u?
-and I said, "oh heeeell no,look you stupid m*** f***er, you ain't nobody to be talking sh** to me F*** you f*** your m***f*** friends, and yo mamma too, who the f*** do you think you are, you and you f*** idiot friends can go f*** each other for all I care, but you ain't gonna talk sh** to me like that, f*** U"
so nos paramos para pagar and they came after us, like if we were guys or something, and he started again, so I turn around and told him,
-"listen you f*** numb nuts either you stop or somethings gonna happen here, I ain't afraid of you and your f*** lil friends" and hiso como si me fuera a pegar or something, and i said
-"HELL NOO you stupid m*** f***, go ahead hit me, i ain't afraid or you, I dare you, go ahead" and his friend gets in and tells me to leave his friend alone, and I says "who the f*** are you too, f** little idiots, f*** off.
Kari I was so pissed I though, maybe he will get a punch or two in, but no more than that, kari i wanted him to punch me so bad, my adrenaline hadn't been this way since I came back from Iraq, F****.
La mensa de graciela quiso jalarme, and told me let's go cyndi y le dije f** no, this ain't over yet, y en eso yo creo que los morros me vieron que I wasn't backing off,so jalaron al morro y se lo llevaron.

kari i was ready for everything, with all the f*** suppressed anger I have, I honestly think I would have beaten the crap out of him, or at least try too hahaha.
(let me clear som', this would have not been the first time cyndi beats the crap out of a guy)

-so why did you think i was gonna get mad at you?
-'cause you always tell me not to fight and sh**, to control my temper.
-una cosa es que te diga to control your temper and your mouth y otra que dejes que cualquier
baboso venga y te quiera humillar, heck no mija, al contrario I would have been mad at you, si no hubieras hecho nada, but just for future reference, stay away form this idiots, y tu amiga.....how stupid is she?


My childhood flashed before me, when my dad used to beat up my mom,the time when He was taken away by the cops, porque se hiso el dormido y me hermanita (tenia 4 anios,cyndi) lo movio y hayaron un cuchillo abajo de el, the time when my mom wanted to stab my dad right infront of me.
And this much I know..... I saw it, I lived it, I hated it, and I would never let something like this happen to me or my sisters or sister-in-law (una de ellas, a la otra yo le daria dos o tres pa q aprenda, haha)

Thursday, November 09, 2006

I passed my test!! woo-hoo

Sunday, October 15, 2006

My test is tomorrow, y a mi
que no me entran las letras.
If somebody out there has a good idea
for studying, send it this way.

Sunday, October 08, 2006

update..

The Yankees are out (sorry Cyndi)
don't kill me, not my fault.
But the Padres are still on the run,
my usband still has a chance.
we celebrate Johnny's b-day next weekend
in Frisko (si Dios quiere) sat. is a family day
sunday se van El y Josi (my lil. bro.)
to the 49ers/Charger game, wait for the pics.

No e blogeado en mas de un mes,
no tengo tiempo (believe it or not)
I'm trying to get my insurance license,
that stuff is hard, done w/ the class
now I'm on a waiting list for the test.
I'll keep you posted.

Sunday, August 27, 2006

He was born w/the umbilical cord
around His neck @ 2:22am
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2 (two) trips to the ER (one @ the gym,
the other in Yellowstone)

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and a rottweiler/boxer that's afraid of Him.
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La colada de la Tia que no puede faltar.
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The best "little" men in my wedding
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things that he does day by day that drive me crazy..Today He turned 4
which in His own words, makes him a "big man not a little man anymore"

Thursday, August 24, 2006

Si, como no..!!!

8:30pm the phone rings.
Me -hello
Her -my we speak to, is it catrina or corina?
Me -Karina, speaking
Her -we just wanted to know if you wanted to
join the army reserves, ma'am ?
(asi con esas palabras)
Me -(can't help but giggle as I say this) I'm a 31 year old wife
& mother, no thank you.
Her -you can still join up until your 41st birthday.
Me - well then why don't you try me in 10 years?

ps. no comment.

I am trying to expand my vocabulary,
in order to feel more comfortable when typing,
spelling & everything that comes along with
letters ( adjectives,verbs,nouns,adverbs etc.)
so my Usband suggested a "little" book called
"thesaurus". I have been wanting one of those
for quite some time, but every time I went into
a bookstore I would come out with everything but.
I finally bought it today, I feel like a little girl with
a brand new toy, never thought a book could make
me feel so happy, satisfied, in a pacificatory state of mind.

PS. Ironically I can't find a synonym for "panchera enfadosa"
in the whole thesaurus, ahahahaha

Sunday, August 20, 2006

The Yankees..

Como diria Franky "rredek deeter"
Cyndi's favorite guy in the whole world...
This game @ Oakland A's

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I will do ANytHiNg for my sisters (and brothers)..... Specially, if it means eMbaRrAssINg
the hell out of them, this just shows what kind of sis I am......
Y LOVE 2 YU 2 Jrmana !!!
PS. We had a blast, let's do it again sOOn.

Monday, August 14, 2006

Chillin' w/ the Family


Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting Kaylee (1yr.)
sporting a Lisa Simpson hairdo, so cute (the hair, not the girl) haha
that one's for Mike & Bivi.

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A little bit of cuteness never hurt anyone.

pictures by: Karina